Customized Wedding Ceremonies

Pick The Right Wedding Officiant

For the most special of days, you deserve an experienced wedding officiant to bring your wedding ceremony to life. Don't take a chance on a rookie ā€“ get a seasoned pro and make sure that magical moment is picture-perfect!

As the Owner of Weddings By Aretha for the past 10 years, Iā€™ve served couples throughout New Jersey, New York, Philly and beyond, and I take pride in ensuring your wedding ceremony is as special and unique as you two are.

Start Your Ceremony Planning

Planning your wedding ceremony but don't know where to start?

We first start with a thorough 1 hour zoom consultation at a mutually convenient time where we get to know each other and see if weā€™re a good fit.

My consultations are known to be a VIBE! And 95% of couples I meet with either book their wedding ceremony on the spot, or within 24 hours. Will that be you?

Iā€™m currently accepting wedding ceremony bookings for 2023 and 2024 couples.

Check out my Prices and Testimonials, then book a consultation to see if weā€™re a fit!

Start Your Ceremony Planning

Start your wedding ceremony planning

Here at Weddings By Aretha, I believe that each couple deserves a ceremony befitting of the special bond they share. I take the time to understand what you want out of your wedding ceremony experience, working with you every step of the way until it is perfect. I ensure that no detail is overlooked - from marriage vows to any rituals or traditions that you feel strongly about incorporating.

With me handling all aspects of your ceremony, you can trust in my expertise knowing that one of the most important days in your life will go off without a hitch!

Let me ease your concerns by helping curate an unforgettable wedding ceremony tailored just for you.

The Wedding Ceremony Script

The Wedding Officiant Script

Once Iā€™m booked as your wedding officiant, youā€™ll complete a ceremony questionnaire thatā€™ll give me some amazing insights into who you are as a couple.

This information lets me get inside your head (and your heart!) to help me craft an unforgettable custom-designed wedding ceremony for you and your guests.

I encourage my couples to be as detailed as possible and spill all those quirky details about yourselves so I can use them as inspiration for something beautiful. It's definitely one of my favorite parts of being an officiant!

The Ceremony Script Is Not Shared

There are two things you should know about preserving the integrity of the wedding ceremony script: (1) if youā€™re having a wedding rehearsal, we donā€™t rehearse the actual ceremony script and (2) the ceremony script is not shared with you or your Planner.

Wedding Day Snapshot

Wedding Day Snapshot

When it comes to your wedding day, here is a quick snapshot of what my itinerary looks like for your big day!

MY ARRIVAL: I arrive approximately 1 hour before start time. I check in with both your Planner and the venue to let everyone know that the Officiant is IN DA BUILDINNNG!! šŸ˜Š

THE CEREMONY: I show up with a beautifully curated wedding ceremony tailored just for you. I then check out the ceremony space to do a mic check and to make sure that all is in accordance with what we discussed (ritual paraphernalia, etc.)

THE MARRIAGE LICENSE: If I ran your rehearsal, I collect the Marriage License at rehearsal. If you didnā€™t have a rehearsal, the Marriage License is the first thing I ask for when I get to the wedding venue.

THE WEDDING RECEPTION: I donā€™t typically stay for the wedding reception ā€“ but Iā€™ll be sure to have a toast to you both before I leave!

AFTER THE WEDDING: On the very next business day, I process your Marriage License with the appropriate Registrarā€™s office then communicate with you how to obtain your Certified Marriage Certificate.

If you got married in New York, your Certified Marriage Certificate will be mailed to you in short order. If you got married in New Jersey or Philly, there is an additional step, I provide you with all that info.

Wedding Ceremony Prices

Wedding Ceremony Prices

Remember the old adage, ā€œyou get what you pay forā€? Well, this is even more important here! One may be tempted to pick a cheapy officiant or someone who just got a notary stamp or perhaps even a friend.

For this aspect of your wedding day, I encourage you to pick a professional wedding officiant.

Your wedding ceremony is a very special and unique moment created just for you, so it's important that the person you pick to spearhead this part of your day is not a cheap fly by night officiant.

Visit my pricing page to learn all about my ceremony prices then book a no obligation zoom consultation to see if weā€™re a fit.