New Jersey Elopements, Handled With Care and Precision

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New Jersey Elopements

Eloping in New Jersey does not need to feel confusing, rushed, or impersonal.

I specialize exclusively in elopements for couples who want to get married legally, thoughtfully, and with everything handled correctly from start to finish.

I’m Aretha Gaskin, a New Jersey Elopement Officiant and Certified Municipal Registrar.

I work with couples across the entire state who want a simple, meaningful ceremony without the expectations or logistics of a traditional wedding.

Some couples plan weeks ahead. Others are working within very short timelines. In both cases, my role is the same. I guide the process, manage the legal requirements, and make sure your marriage is completed properly so you can focus on the moment itself.

Wedding officiant leading an intimate elopement ceremony for a couple in New Jersey
Inclusive elopement ceremony for a same-sex couple officiated in New Jersey

Elopements for All Couples

I proudly serve all couples, including same-sex, LGBTQ+, and gender-diverse couples.

Every elopement I officiate is approached with respect, discretion, and professionalism.

I have extensive experience officiating LGBTQ+ elopements throughout New Jersey and understand the importance of handling both the ceremony and the legal process accurately and without assumptions.

Your relationship is respected here. Your marriage is handled correctly. No explanations required.

How Elopements Work in New Jersey

In New Jersey, couples must book their officiant and provide the officiant’s information before a Marriage License can be issued.

Municipal registrars require an officiant on file, and a license cannot be released without one.

Once your officiant is secured, most New Jersey elopements follow a clear process:

  • Applying for a Marriage License

  • Meeting New Jersey witness requirements

  • Officiating the elopement ceremony or vows

  • Submitting the completed license for processing

  • Receiving your Certified Marriage Certificate

For eligible couples and depending on municipal availability, I can also assist with receiving your Certified Marriage Certificate on the same day you are married.

This is especially helpful for couples with immigration, travel, or legal timelines.

Detailed guidance is provided after booking so expectations are clear from the beginning.

Couple exchanging vows during an outdoor elopement ceremony in Somerset County, New Jersey

New Jersey Counties I Serve

I officiate elopements throughout New Jersey. Each county has its own procedures, timelines, and logistics, which is why local experience matters.

You can explore county-specific elopement information here:

Additional counties are added regularly as part of my statewide elopement services.

Each county page provides location-specific guidance, timelines, and considerations based on how elopements actually work there.

Two brides exchange vows during an intimate elopement ceremony in New Jersey officiated by Weddings By Aretha.

Why Couples Choose Me for Their New Jersey Elopement

Couples come to me because they want their marriage handled properly the first time.

My elopement services are a good fit if you value:

  • Clear guidance through the New Jersey marriage process

  • Accurate handling of legal documentation

  • Discretion and professionalism

  • Calm, steady leadership on your wedding day

  • Support with witnesses when needed

  • Same-day Certified Marriage Certificate support for eligible couples

As a Certified Municipal Registrar, I bring a deeper level of legal knowledge that many couples are not aware exists.

This is especially important for couples working within tight timelines or navigating documentation requirements.

Two brides exchange vows during an intimate elopement ceremony in New Jersey officiated by Weddings By Aretha.

Start the Elopement Process

The first step is completing the consultation form.

Once your form is submitted, I personally review your details.

If I am available for your date and location, I follow up promptly by text to confirm next steps and answer any immediate questions.

If everything aligns, booking is straightforward.

Payment is submitted, paperwork is handled promptly, and your elopement is officially secured.

This process is designed to be efficient, respectful of your time, and very clear from the start.

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