New Jersey Wedding Officiant
Your Ceremony Should Feel Like You
For luxury weddings and intimate elopements
MEET ARETHA
Your Ceremony Should Feel Like You
New Jersey wedding officiant for luxury weddings and intimate elopements.
A LITTLE about ARETHA
I’m Aretha Gaskin, a New Jersey wedding officiant and Certified Municipal Registrar. Weddings have been part of my life for more than a decade, but what keeps me here all these years is the people.
There is something incredibly special about being invited into a couple’s life for such an important moment. I get to hear their stories, meet their families and stand beside them as they begin a new chapter together.
For more than a decade, I've had the privilege of working as a wedding officiant for couples from different backgrounds, cultures and circumstances. Some have planned their wedding for months. Others have called me with only days, or even hours, to make it happen.
What I’ve learned is that the size of the wedding doesn’t determine the significance of the moment. Whether it’s an intimate elopement with two witnesses or a celebration surrounded by family and friends, I want every couple to feel that their ceremony matters.
HOW I got HERE
A career I never planned and one I can't imagine not having.
BEFORE THE CEREMONIES
A career in corporate law in New York City, with weddings becoming an increasingly important part of my world.
TAKING THE LEAP FORWARD
What had existed alongside my corporate career became something I was ready to pursue wholeheartedly: Weddings By Aretha.
1,000+ CEREMONIES LATER
From intimate elopements to large celebrations, every couple and every ceremony has shaped the wedding officiant I am today.
STILL HAPPILY SAYING “I DO”
More than a decade later, I still love being part of the moment two people choose each other and say “I do.”
TRUSTED BY COUPLES SINCE 2014
12+
YEARS
OFFICIATING
1,000+
CEREMONIES
PERFORMED
CMR
CERTIFIED MUNICIPAL
REGISTRAR
MORE THAN A WEDDING OFFICIANT
The Ceremony Is Only Part of What I Do.
As a wedding officiant and Certified Municipal Registrar in New Jersey, I bring an additional level of knowledge to the marriage process that goes beyond performing the ceremony.
I understand New Jersey marriage laws, licensing procedures and vital records requirements, which means I can guide couples through the process clearly and make sure the legal details are handled correctly.
For couples working within short timelines, navigating immigration requirements or needing their documentation quickly, that experience can be especially valuable.
DRESSED FOR THE OCCASION
Your ceremony photos will last a lifetime, so I’m mindful of how I complement your wedding. Couples are welcome to share their wedding colors or color palette, and I’m happy to coordinate my attire to beautifully complement the look and feel of the day.
BRIDE SPOTLIGHT
My kind of Bride
Happy, sassy, fun and an absolute joy to work with.